Do you know that you can be alone yet not lonely?Many people erroneously believe that the absence of family,close friends,lovers is synonymous with loneliness.This is very common amongst singles who are not involve in serious dating or courtship.The fact is that anybody can become lonely whether married or single or even those surrounded by family members.
Whenever you having those melancolic feeling of loneliness do the following:
1,Have an honest self-assessment of your present situation;Is your loneliness self-inflicted by your attitude which drives good people away from you?if this is the case, you must change your ways.Become more accomodating,kind, generous,in short be a good friend and you will have geninue friends.Many self-centred people are always lonely.
2,Engage in new ventures that would liven your life.Get more education,learn new things,get a vocation that would be of benefit to you and others.Get closer to your maker-God who alone has the ability to give that peace and joy that no man can.
3,Finally,learn to encourage youself,erase from your mind, that erroneous notion that you are lonely because you currently lack a stable partner.Do not sit down brooding cheer up!Remember, people are more easily attracted to cheerful and happy people,therefore make yourself happy by doing the things that gives you joy.
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