Is the belief that love conquers all really true? Love is paramount in every relationship, more importantly in marital relationships. But the fact remain that love alone will not put food on your table, therefore economic factors must be taken into consideration in marital relationships. It will be foolish to get married without a stable source of income.
Love alone will not override bad attitudes. Every human being have some measure of negative attitudes, it is to your advantage that you evaluate your spouse's attitude and make genuine effort to make corrections. If you are not yet married and you notice certain attitude you cannot cope with, please don't get married to that person. The notion that you can change your partner after marriage is often a fallacy. It may even get worse after marriage.
Love without spiritual support from your creator( GOD) is certainly not enough. No matter the intensity of love, we need to hand over our affairs and our loved ones to God constantly in prayers and intercession.
Don't deceive yourself that you can do it alone, you still need God who make all things beautiful.
True love is a requisite for successful marital relationships, therefore we cannot do without it.
But we must not have our head in the cloud to overlook other essential ingredients required for a strong and lasting relationships. Is love really enough? What do you think? Your comments will be welcome.
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