So many singles go into relationships and marriages with the wrong reasons as a foundation which ultimately leads to heartbreaks and marital failure. Some of these of reasons can be summarize as follows:
1, Fear of been seen as an old spinster or bachelor: Beloved there is no age limit to marriage. Some people rush into marriage quickly and rush out again. Do not allow age to intimidate you into getting into wrong relationship and marriage.
2, Economic reasons: In this hash economic times, more and more people are now going into relationships where they can benefit more financially even where there is no love and mutual respect. The problem with such relationships is that it crumples when the inducing factor(money) is no longer there. Look for someone that both of you will build your home together. Do not be a parasite on another person's hard earned money.
3, Relationships built on match-making and other people's convictions: There is nothing wrong with match-making but the two people involved must be convinced of their love and need for each other before taking relationship to a higher level. Do not allow others to choose your spouse for you because they are not the ones that will live with the person.
4, Beauty and Social background: Nothing is wrong in looking for someone you find attractive and lovable, but remember that there is also the beauty of the mind. Beauty without good character is like a beautiful vast with no flower inside. Beauty is desirable but good character is very important for successful relationships.
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