FRIENDSHIP IS NOT BY FORCE,BUT BY CHOICE

Everybody desire good friends,in fact some friends are better than relatives because they are dependable and fun to be with.But many lives have been ruined because of association with bad friends.If you asked some of some those people in the prisons,majority of drug addicts,prostitutes,you would discover that many of them were lured into these illicit acts by so-called friends.
The notion of having childhood friends for life have been known to create problems later life when wisdom is not applied in handling some situations.For instance,a friend you have not been in touch with suddenly appeared after many years,in the euphoria of renewed friendship,you deliberately ignore many glaring signs that your friends character and ways have change negatively over years,if care is not taken the bad influence will rob on you and make you loose your destiny.
When you feel uncomfortable in any friendship,then you sit down and evaluate it to see ways of making it better or discontinue it.Do not allow any friendship no matter how long to become a burden in your life.You can tactically withdraw from any friendship and still remain cordial with those in involved.We must realize that though we cannot choose the family we were born into,but we can choose our friends.
Finally,know that for you to have good friends,you must be a good friend yourself.Whatever you give is what you receive.Be a good friend and you will have good friends.But remember you are not bound to remain in that friendship that is not good for you.Friendship is not by force,but by choice!